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  15 Feb 2023, 10:34

Refugee from Taliban offers virtual tours of her homeland

MILAN, Feb 15, 2023 (BSS/AFP) - Forced to flee by the Taliban, Fatima
Haidari now offers virtual tours of Afghanistan from her new home in Italy --
with the proceeds funding secret English classes for women there.

From her student flatshare in Milan, Haidari leads cyber-tourists around the
western Afghan city of Herat, using Zoom to show them the grand mosque with
its glazed tiles, the citadel and the bustling bazaar.

The 24-year-old worked as a tour guide in Herat before fleeing when the
Taliban took power in August 2021, and is now studying international politics
at Milan's Bocconi university.

But she remains passionate about showing outsiders the beauty of her country,
even if few tourists currently dare visit.

"When you hear about Afghanistan, you think of war, terror and bombs,"
Haidari told AFP in the little kitchen she shares with four other students.

"I want to show the world the beauty of the country, its culture and its
history."

Organised through British tour operator Untamed Borders, the events draw
people from Britain to Australia, Germany and India.

A third of the money goes towards secret English classes for young women back
in Afghanistan.

The Taliban have imposed harsh restrictions on women since returning to
power, including closing secondary schools and universities for girls and
women.

Haidari herself faced insults after becoming the first female tourist guide
in Afghanistan.

Local religious leaders accused her of "doing the devil's work", particularly
when accompanying men, while boys threw stones at her in the street.

- 'The power of our pens' -

Haidari is passionate about education, after battling her whole life for
access to books.

Growing up in the mountains in the central region of Ghor, the youngest of
seven children, her parents made her look after the sheep.

"I would take the sheep out to graze by the river where the boys had school
and secretly listen to their lessons," she recalled.

"As I didn't have a pen, I would write in the sand or in clay."

When she was 10, her impoverished family moved to Herat, where they could not
afford to send her to school.

For three years she worked at night on home-made items such as traditional
clothes, to raise enough money to pay for classes and text books.

She managed to persuade her parents to allow her to go to university in
Herat, where she began studying journalism in 2019.

"They wanted me to become a perfect housewife. But I didn't want to follow
the same path as my two sisters and face an arranged marriage," Haidari said.

In September last year, she joined around 20 refugee students welcomed by
Bocconi University in Milan.

- 'Buried alive' -

Wearing a black headscarf and leather gilet, jeans tucked into her boots and
her laptop in a bag on her back, she looks like any other student on campus.

But she never forgets the plight of women back home.

"They are confined to the house, it is as if they are locked in a prison or
in a grave where they are buried alive," she said.

Haidari is a member of Afghanistan's minority Hazara community, Shiites in a
majority Sunni nation who have been targeted by the Islamic State (IS) group.

When the Taliban arrived, she was warned by the local tour operator she
worked for that she might be a target, and fled.

Leaving Afghanistan was traumatic. At Kabul airport, there were desperate
scenes as thousands of people tried to get a flight out.

"The Taliban were hitting the crowd with Kalashnikovs, bullets were whizzing
by my ears and a young girl collapsed dead next to me. I thought I was in a
horror movie, but it was real," she recalled.

She was unable to get onto flights to the United States and Poland, but got
on a plane to Rome.

She still dreams of returning home "to set up my own travel agency and hire
women as guides".

But "as long as the Taliban are in Afghanistan, it is no longer my home," she
said.